Talking about politics, especially during a contentious election, can be daunting for anyone, especially for a student on a college campus.  Many people will be tempted to run in the opposite direction. Here are five things that you can do to discuss the election respectfully: 

1. Respect:  When discussing the election, especially with someone with a different political viewpoint, it’s imperative to show respect for the person you are talking to. You do not have to be best friends with them or agree with their talking points, but you need to respect them as a person. Treat them as you would want to be treated. 
2. Honesty: When discussing something as controversial as politics and various topics like Immigration or the economy, it’s crucial to be honest and acknowledge where the solution or policy you support falls short. The discussion will be productive if both sides recognize something isn’t perfect and are honest with their beliefs.  
3. Explain the WHY: When trying to understand someone else’s viewpoint and effectively communicate your own, I have found that it helps to explain why you believe something. Perhaps your upbringing, religion, family experiences, or personal experiences have impacted your beliefs on a specific topic. This can also open the door for the other person to explain their point of view and help you understand them more. Atticus Finch said it the best: “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view until you climb in his skin and walk around in it.” 
4. Find Common Ground: When discussing politics, finding common ground is a way to relate to each other and at least agree on one thing. This can be easier in some instances than others, depending on the person you are debating. Sometimes, you will only agree on one policy, which is okay. Finding common ground can also mean deciding what needs to happen, such as wanting fewer people to live in poverty or reducing inflation. 
5. Think Outside of R and D: Talking about politicians themselves and specific party platforms leads you right into the weeds of polarization and contentious debate. Instead, start by explaining your values. Perhaps you are a Christian, and you believe in protecting the innocent. These beliefs influence how you vote. In other words, start backward with your core beliefs, and depending on who you are talking to, you can build upon your beliefs to policies and a particular party platform. 

I have also found that in college, many individuals follow what their friends believe or what social media tells them. If you ask them questions, that individual’s argument will often start to collapse. If you are willing to listen and ask questions, you will have more leverage to change the other person’s mind if you indirectly point them to their flaw in logic. 

I hope these tips help you as you navigate talking about controversial topics such as the upcoming presidential election.  

This blog was written by our Fall Communications Intern, Holly Tkach.