A Return to Modesty by Wendy Shalit

A Modest Conclusion: Innocence

Since we ran out of weeks in 2008 to finish A Return to Modesty by Wendy Shalit, I would like to wrap things up before we start a new book.  Chapter 10 discusses the idea of “Modesty and the Erotic.” Shalit highlights studies that show that married, religious women are more satisfied with their sex [...]

January 6, 2009 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

Against the Curing of Womanhood

Are all women nuts? Or just when they become ex-girlfriend status, then they are classified as nuts? What makes a man perceive a woman as “a nut”? And are all women potential nuts? Wendy Shalit poses these questions at the beginning of Chapter 9 in her book, A Return to Modesty. In 1899, Edward Sandford [...]

December 16, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

Male Character

Chapter 8, in Wendy Shalit’s book, A Return to Modesty, addresses the long awaited topic of “Male Character.” The whole topic of the character and honor of a gentleman has recently been one of discussion at Arizona State University. ASU’s NeW chapter will be hosting ASU’s First Annual Gentleman’s Showcase in February 2009. The idea is [...]

December 10, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

Can Modesty Be Natural?

Chapter 7 in Wendy Shalit’s book A Return to Modesty presents many different points of discussion. She starts out with a quote from Rousseau and his idea that modesty IS natural. The question then arises that if it is natural, can modesty be a virtue, then? Kant says this about it: “The girl is not [...]

December 3, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

The Great Deception

After reading Chapter 6 in Wendy Shalit’s book, A Return to Modesty, I have been thinking about women in society, American society, the ideas of modest behaviors and mindsets, and the ubiquitous hook-up culture. In the midst of all this mental activity, I also find myself talking with fellow female classmates who are somewhat bitter, [...]

November 25, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

Forgiving Modesty

The title of Chapter 5 in Wendy Shalit’s book, A Return to Modesty, begs a question. It is “Forgiving Modesty.” Is there a reason that society needs to forgive modesty? Has modesty failed us? First, before even considering this, we need to define our terms. Shalit gives a couple definitions of modesty. She says there are [...]

November 19, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

New Perversions

Chapter 4 in Wendy Shalit’s book, A Return to Modesty: Discovering The Lost Virtue, is full of interesting interviews, provoking thoughts, and leading questions. A whole essay could be written in response to this chapter. What are these new perversions? In this day and age, is it embarrassing to reveal that deep down inside you [...]

November 11, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

The Fallout

With a week sabbatical, we are on Chapter 3 of Wendy Shalit’s A Return to Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue. Last week, NeW at Arizona State University took part in a panel discussing Arizona Proposition 102 - a state Constitutional amendment that would protect marriage as the union of 1 man and 1 woman. While discussing the [...]

November 4, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

Postmodern Sexual Etiquette, From Hook-Up to Checkup

A Return To Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue, Chapter 2 Do you have sexual freedom? Do you feel emancipated from the Judeo-Christian ethic about sex? Well you should according to Mr. Edward Beecher. In 1969, he said the following: “Here, I think, is a task for sex research: an objective inquiry into the short-term and [...]

October 21, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

The Problem

At our last NeW meeting at ASU, we discussed Chapter 1 from A Return to Modesty. The chapter is rightfully titled, “The War on Embarrassment.”Shalit introduces her discussion on modesty with her stories about when she was exempt from 4th Grade Human Growth and Development class and from the embarrassing questions that Mrs. Nelson posed. [...]

October 14, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

The Changing Effects of Sexual Freedom

We can’t turn on the TV, look through a magazine rack, or listen to the radio without hearing or seeing some sex mentioned in a casual way. The sexual revolution that took place in the 1960s and 1970s has clearly left its mark on American culture. This is especially apparent in how open and free [...]

October 9, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →

What is Modesty?

Mark Twain said it this way: “Clothes make the man. Naked people have left little or no influence on society.” Until next Tuesday, we will be discussing the Introduction in A Return to Modesty. One thing I found most interesting in the Introduction, was on pages 8-9, when Shalit tells of some of Mary Pipher’s [...]

October 7, 2008 0 comments CONTINUE READING THIS POST →